Hey Guys, Just wondering if some of you can share any tips for success in relationships and marriages? Any tips for long term success in relationships and marriages with females? How do you make it work? Did you date a lot in your teens and 20's? What age is good to marry and so forth? Personally, I am 23, very soon to be 24 years old. I am an extremely confident guy, but Ive been through a lot of breakups already and its very stressful, frustrating, and downright depressing at times. Ive had 3 or 4 longterm (1 year+) relationships. And breakups have been brutal. Of course Ive also had about 10 or 15 girls Ive dated casually and maybe had sex with, but never a longterm relationship. One of my ex girlfriends (who happens to be Persian, Caucasian from Afghanistan) that I dated for a couple years is now a Doctor and married to another European white man who is a bit older than me. He's about 28. On one hand I am happy for her, and I respect her choice, but on the other hand I am jealous and sad about it. I feel like it should have been me in that situation, but it's not. Its frustrating to date someone for 3 or 4 years, then breakup, and she marries someone she has been with for only 1 or 2 years. Then another exgirlfriend (also Persian, Caucasian from Iran-Iraq border) that I just broke up and was with for one year, so I still feel "blah" about that. I know its nothing and I will move on but it in a way it hurts. Its just a lot of drama and I was hoping to maybe marry her, but it didn't work out. I guess its nothing and Im sure I will move on, but all of these exgirlfriends and it kind of stresses me out, makes me wonder "what if", and burns me out at times. I'm also one of those guys who is always wanting sex so its important for me to always have a girlfriend that I can have sex with. How do you deal with thoughts about exgirlfriends, and how many breakups did you have before you got married? How do you feel when your ex gets married like mine? What changes can I make so I will avoid breakups? Thanks, all comments welcomed.